EP 334: "I Stopped Being The Good Girl" - Choosing Yourself with Amber Rae
Description
In this inspiring episode, I speak with bestselling author Amber Rae about her new book Lovable. While it may sound like a story about forbidden love, the deeper message is about what it really means to choose yourself - even when society, family, or the people closest to you may not understand or support your choice.
So many women I work with struggle under the weight of shoulds - the expectations of being the “good girl,” following the rules, and living a life that looks perfect on the outside but feels deeply misaligned on the inside. When we abandon ourselves this way, anxiety often becomes the voice we’ve silenced. This conversation with Amber is a reminder that reclaiming your authentic self is worth every step, no matter how hard or scary it may feel.
We cover:
✅ Amber’s story of leaving a sexless marriage that looked “perfect” on the outside
✅ How Amber broke free from the “good girl” role and chose her true self
✅ How anxiety and fear show up during big life transitions – and how Amber navigated them
✅ The power of sharing vulnerably, facing backlash, and ultimately living without regrets
Where to find Amber Rae:
📖 Lovable – available in US bookstores and on Amazon (ships worldwide)
📲 Instagram: @heyamberrae
🌐 Website: amberrae.com
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